March 14

We do have a little bit more time today so I'll try to write a little bit better of a letter.  We'll see.  I feel like I never know quite what to say.  But I'll give you a little rundown of how the week went, and then I'll see what kind of a spiritual message I can come up with.  Its actually been pretty crazy week.

As you know we had interviews with President Andrada last Monday, and that was wonderful.  After that we just came home and did some studies because our curfew here in Cagayan is currently 6:30.  Tuesday we traveled back to Aparri for zone conferences.  We were blessed to hear from President Andrada and the AP's, and we learned some good stuff about how to help others come unto Christ.  That lasted all day long, so again we went just went home and did some studies.  The next morning we woke up early and headed to Laoag for some exchanges with the AP's.  It was a fun 6 hour ride through the mountains.  Its really pretty actually, I'll send some pictures.  Then when we made it to Laoag we spent the day with the AP's.  It was fun getting to work with Elder Paje (one of our APs right now) and especially fun because the AP's area is my old area (Laoag 3) so I got to see a lot of the members there that I'm friends with and such. It was a good exchanges, Elder Paje had some good advice for us as well on how to improve our proselyting.  It was fun.  Then next morning (thursday) we woke up and headed back to Lal-lo.  Yaaaayy for bus rides.  When we got home we went out and finally did some proselyting in our own area.  It was good, I really missed our investigators here.  There are a couple that are getting really close to baptism, there are just a few little problems left to work out before they get baptized.  Friday was another good proselyting day, then Saturday we had a wedding in the morning which I played the piano at (way worse than playing the piano in sacrament meeting by the way. I was super nervous)  then we got to go visit one of our progressing investigators before we went to a baptism in Camalaniugan. I also ended up playing the piano there as well.  As bad as I am at piano, I am in high demand right now in the Aparri District.  Sunday showed up and we went to church in the morning, then straight to Magapit Junction so that we could get on a Van and head to Laoag again.  We had a meeting with President Andrada so we got to go back again.  The good thing is that while we were waiting at Magapit Junction a member from Laoag came up to us and asked us where we were headed and then if we wanted a ride.  So we got to ride with the member in their car to Laoag which is a little bit nicer than the van we would've ridden.  Faster too.  Yesterday we had meetings all day with President Andrada, then celebrated Sister Andrada's birthday afterwards. She's turning 47 on Saturday.  Then we went to the bus station and hopped on a bus home.  We ended up making it into the apartment and into bed at around 2 AM, and that brings us to today!  What a fun week right?  It was hectic, but I learned lots.

One thing in particular I've been thinking about is quiet dignity.  Just being like the Savior would be.  I have been experiencing the importance of this principle.  People make judgments about us and the church from the minute they see us, and if they just see a bunch of 19 and 20 year old kids, they will be less likely to listen to us.  On the other hand, if they notice the difference in us, there will be more of a desire for  them to listen to us.  This principle applies to everyone, because whether you know it or not, there are people watching you to see what you will do in every situation.  Eyes are always turned towards each of us, looking to see how we will react, will we remain in control of ourselves, or will we let the natural man inside take over.  These are the things people knowingly and unknowingly look for all around.  Our goal as members of the church is to make sure that when people look at us, they see people who are something more than the world.  To use the Savior's words, they need to see people who are "in the world, but not of the world".  Those are the members of God's church.

This quiet dignity affects every aspect of our lives.  As we keep control of our emotions and actions in every situation, we will gain the discipline to avoid and resist temptations.  As we remain clean from sin, our lives will be filled with the Spirit of the Lord.  Through that Spirit, we will be blessed with success in our endeavors, whether it be at home, work, school, or anywhere else.  And through that success, we will gain more opportunity to be a blessing to the lives of those around us.  And in the end, that is all God wants for us.

Through our quiet dignity, we can be a great part in God's glory of "bring[ing] to pass the immortality and eternal life of mankind."  I know that this is true, and that this will bring more peace to our lives than we can imagine.  I love you all, have a wonderful week!

Elder Childs

February 27

Hello Everyone!

We have had another great week here in Lal-lo.  I feel like I say that a lot.  It's because its true (: We have been working this week on getting some referrals from members because it makes the work move so much quicker that way.  We talked with some members and they are going to work on it. One young woman invited some friends over to her house to meet us, but they were super shy, so nothing has happened there quite yet, but hopefully in the coming weeks we will get to meet again and build a relationship with them. We also have a couple of referrals we are going to try and contact this coming week, so hopefully we will see some progress there.  Many times here in the Philippines the people are ready to believe the message, they just have more of a problem on the social aspect of things.  So we are always looking for people who already have friends in the church.

We have been working lately with a part member family, the Vergonia family, and they are super nice.  There is only one boy who isn't a member yet.  His name is Wilson and he is 21 years old.  He was going to church before I got to the area, but in my time here I haven't seen him come out yet.  He says he wants to be baptized, but he has been busy lately with school, and so he hasn't been able to read his scriptures lately or go to church.  Hopefully in the coming weeks we will be able to help him with that.

Whenever we get cases like this I think of Mary and Martha when Jesus visited their home. There were things to be done around the house, and Martha diligently went to work.  Mary on the other hand chose to sit with Jesus and listen to Him teach.  Martha felt it unfair that she should be the only one doing the work, and complained to Him.  Jesus' simple reply was, "Martha Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things, but one thing is needful and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her."

I feel so many of us just get so worried about this chore and that job and everything else that we begin to feel we have no time to just learn from the words of the Savior.  But in the end, we are just being worried about things that do not have eternal significance. In the end, there is only one thing that is needful (our salvation) and when we do things that help us return to God, that will never be taken away from us, and God will bless us for it.  That is a promise.

I hope you have a wonderful week!

Elder Childs

February 20

Hi Everyone,

I didn't get to email last week because we were in the hospital. But not for me this time.  Elder Pamaran had amoebiasis and so he wasn't doing to hot.  But now everyone is alive and well.  My whole week was just sitting in the hospital, until saturday, so we'll talk about that one (:

Saturday is the day that David A Bednar was going to show up to the Laoag Stake Center for a meeting with the missionaries from 1 to 4, and then with the YSA from 5 to 7. We had been told on Friday that we weren't going to be able to be discharged from the hospital on Saturday, but they would give us a 'check out' slip so that we could attend the conference.  Sister Andrada wanted Elder Pamaran to be discharged, and was pushing for it, so on Saturday at around 10 o'clock they informed us that they would just discharge us, as soon as the doctor could get in to have one last look at Elder Pamaran.  The doctor didn't get in until around 11 o'clock, and by that time I was feeling a little bit nervous about getting there on time because we were supposed to be there at 12 to prepare for the meeting.

The doctor said that we were all set to go, but before we left they wanted to give Elder Pamaran  one more dose of antibacterial something or other through his IV, and that didn't get done until 12:05.  After that I thought that we were clear to go, but it turned out to not be so. We still had to get billing all taken care of.  So I ran Elder Pamaran's medical insurance card down to the billing section and they told me to just go wait in our room and that they would call the nurses station when they had contacted the provider and everything was all taken care of.  So I returned to the room and we waited.  12:30, no call yet, so I went down and talked with them again, and they informed me that they had called the provider, but they were waiting for a call back, and it would probably be around an hour until it was done.  I was really nervous by this time.  I asked if we could just come back for it after the meeting, but they told me it couldn't be done like that.  We weren't allowed to leave until everything was all paid for.

I went back up to our room and knelt down and prayed. An Apostle of the Lord was coming and I really wanted to be able to make it to the meeting on time.  After I prayed, I got the feeling that we weren't going to make it on time, but that also came with a feeling of peace that everything would be alright.  So we kept waiting.  Finally at around 1:30 I went to find the Chief Nurse of the hospital. He had been our friend and helped us out a lot, so I figured that he would be able to help again.  It turned out that I was right.  He talked to the billing people and got everything all squared away.  The insurance still hadn't been cleared, but the Chief nurse just got our number and said that he would call if there were any problems, and he also got us an ambulance to take us over to the stake center, bless his dear heart.  

We went to the stake center with lights and sirens on (which was a good thing because there was a lot of traffic) and by the time we finally walked into the meeting it was 2:00.  When I first walked in to the meeting, I was stressed and a little bit dissapointed, but after we sat down, I looked up at the podium and saw the face of David A Bednar standing at the pulpit, all of the stress melted away and I couldn't just help smiling.  The spirit was so very strong in that room.

I learned so much from Elder Bednar that day, but one of my favorite learnings was about learning.  He talked about how the spirit and the great blessing of knowledge we were feeling was not just because there was an apostle in the room.  He said that we do not need and Apostle to learn like that.  He reminded us that each and every one of us had been baptized, and because of that, we had the right to constant access to the third member of the Godhead.  The very Holy Ghost would teach us, if we just would open our hearts and prepare ourselves to receive it.  Elder Bednar promised that if we really prepare ourselves, we would have access to that power every day of our lives.  Every time we need to learn, the spirit would be there, and we could have great blessings of knowledge every time.

Afterwards, Elder Bednar announced that we would all now get to go shake his hand. This was also a tender mercy of the Lord because I had assumed that that had taken place before the meeting started.  I cannot begin to describe the feelings of gratitude and joy that I felt as I had the opportunity to shake Elder Bednar's hand, and look him in the face.  It was a wonderful day.

I would just like to bear my testimony, that after being in the same room as an apostle, and hearing him speak, I know that the leaders of this church are called of God.  They are inspired and they love each and every one of us personally. I know that President Monson is the prophet of our day, and the 12 Apostles act under his direction, and are also inspired of God.

I love you all,

Elder Childs

February 14 - Happy Birthday Elder Childs!

We didn't get a letter from Alex this week, but one of the members in his area posted a bunch of birthday party pictures:

February 5

Hello Everyone!

This week has been a good week!  Since the announcement of the new more focused key indicators, we have been having more focused work, and it has been good.  It is nice the freedom that the First Presidency has given the missionaries.  Because of the new focus, there were a lot of improvements in the zone.  This week, every single companionship had someone come out to church.  Even the companionships that have been struggling a little bit.   I think it is because excuses had been eliminated.  Before you could say, "well, even though I didn't have anyone out to church, we still taught a lot of lessons."  But now that doesn't fly.  Its fun.  I think that the work will move forward a lot faster now here in Vigan Zone.

The only bad thing is that I won't be here in Vigan Zone to see it anymore.  Last Saturday night the APs texted and told me that I will be transferring.  I'm now headed back to Cagayan!  My new area will be in Lal-lo. I'm excited!  It is a good area.  I came from an area right by that, so now I'll get to go to Lal-lo too!  The bus ride will be a little bit long, but I guess I can read or sleep or something (:

Yesterday after church we were talking with the YSA representative here in Sto. Domingo, and he told us he had seen a post on facebook that said, "love even when you have no reason to."  I liked it.  I think a lot of times I'm good at loving people when they want to listen and be taught, but when they reject us, my love for them kind of goes away.  So thats something that I want to focus on more.  In Moroni it says that charity never faileth.  So we must love everyone.  If we say we have charity, but there is one person for whom we have angry feelings, or have a grudge towards, or any other sort of resentment, it means that we do not yet have the charity that we need to become like Christ.  The charity that is spoken of in Moroni 7:48.  The charity that if we possess at the last day, "when He shall appear, you shall be like Him".  Thats the kind of charity that I am hoping, striving and praying for.  Because in the end, the two greatest commandments are all about love. 

I love  you all!  Have a wonderful week!

Elder Childs

January 29

Hello Everyone!

We have had a great week here in Santo Domingo.  There were two big announcements that came in.  The first is that Elder Bednar will be coming to visit our mission on February 18!!!  I can't wait to be able to hear what his guidance is for our mission.  I hope that I can be ready to receive all of the things that he has to share with us.

The second big announcement was that the church has dropped most of the key indicators that we have been reporting.  Before we had a big long list of stuff to track and report, but now it is just 4.  We now track Baptisms and confirmations, Investigators with a baptismal date, investigator sacrament attendance, and new investigators.  I feel like it is the missionary department putting a lot more trust in missionaries to do what they need to do to get people out to church.  I feel we are moving closer every day to doing the missionary work the way it was done in the time of Ammon, or in the time of Paul.  Hopefully we can get the same results that they did as well.  Pray for us!

Other than that, we had a pretty normal week.  We had interviews with President Andrada, and it is always a joy to get to speak with our mission president and his wife.  I have no doubt that they are called of God.  He is always such a big help to our missionary effort.  We did have one good new find this week.  Her name is sister Josephine, and she is widowed, with three children.  Her oldest has moved out of the house, but the second is still there, and her youngest suffers from cerebral palsy.  She is super nice though.  She always reads the Bible, and really loves it.  We were able to share with her about the Book of Mormon and the power that is has in our lives, all the help and the peace that it brings.  The spirit was very strong in the lesson, and she recognized it there.  I believe that she will read in the Book of Mormon and feel its power for herself.

This week, I just have felt that I really love the Book of Mormon.  It really is such a power in our lives.  We have one recent convert who just loves the Book of Mormon so so much.  If she ever comes with us to fellowship she bears powerful testimony of how much the Book of Mormon has changed her life, and it makes everyone want to listen.  In my personal life I have seen the power that the Book of Mormon gives.  God gave us scriptures to bless our lives, and they will, if we just take the time to open them and read.  God has promised us it is true, but we don't need to just believe blindly.  Anyone who wants can put that promise to the test for themselves.  If you're not sure, take a problem to the Lord, and then read the Book of Mormon.  The help will come.

I love you all, and hope you have a wonderful week!

Elder Childs

Here are some pictures from the last week.  It's us at the beach, us with some string beans from a member's farm, and a little bamboo bridge that came pretty close to breaking with us on it.  Or at least it felt like it (:

                       

January 22

This will just be a quick email today.  Not lots of time again.

For me this week, we had a pretty good week.  We started out with a lot of people missing their appointments, but in the end it was all alright.  We had a couple of investigators come to church for the first time so that was good!  Their names are Rose Vic and Lorna Semana.  They have been investigators for about a month, and it was good to finally see them come out to church.  It was their first time to go to any church anywhere except for a catholic church.  But hopefully they had a good time.  We got there fifteen minutes early, and there still wasn't anyone there except for the branch president.  They felt a little bit awkward about that, but after a little bit some members showed up.  In the end it was all ok.

Other than that, we had a pretty boring week.  We had some issues that we had to deal with in the area and zone, but everything is mostly ok now.  Hopefully this next week everything runs a little bit smoother.

Elder Childs



Here are some pictures.  The one is me being super lazy and letting one of our investigators pull me on a water buffalo sled.  They use it to transport rice and such.  Then there's one of us at the beach with some fellowshippers.  It was fun!  Then the last is a cool road we walked down the other day.  I don't think very many people actually use it, but it was a cool little shortcut!